'Solo agers' are a growing group. Changes that would help them could help everyone
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Smigielski is both a member and a volunteer. He is helping to start a new village in his rural part of Rhode Island. "I wanted to retire to something," says the longtime software engineer. "I didn't want to retire to boredom … and I really have met the kindest people."

He's spending part of this day at a community center to explain the village concept to a group of older adults over lunch, including his mother, Jacqueline. She is 87, a widow, and eager to volunteer. Afterwards he heads back to the home he used to share with his husband. After speaking in front of the group, he needs to decompress in the quiet of the house and yard.

Smigielski says he's not an obvious candidate for a network like this. He enjoys his own company, and doesn't expect to need help changing lightbulbs for decades. But after years of caregiving, followed by the Covid years, he realized something.

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